Finding Love In All The Right Places!

Friday, May 24, 2019

Dating is a risky chance to take, but finding someone you connect with on another level is worth it. Online dating has become the new normal, it’s not so taboo anymore. It seems like everyone is joining a dating site these days. It’s fun, different, but unique and you have the opportunity to meet the right guy or girl even if they are miles away. Looking for the right person should be fun. 

You’re probably thinking why is she saying fun, but seriously it should be. Sure you’re taking a chance on finding the right person, but if this is something new, you should let you’re guard a little. When you take that step to meeting someone online, it’s about giving someone a chance. I mean if you know the type of person you want and you should settle, but having a long list of the perfect guy or girl doesn’t really exist. But that doesn’t mean that your soulmate doesn’t. You never know you could be scrolling right past them.

I’ve always wondered what it would be like to help someone find: the yin to their yang, the peanut butter to their jelly! So why not share what I would do as a matchmaker. When looking for someone, I feel like people look at appearances. It would be interesting to create a site where people couldn’t see what their potential mate looked like or having everyone post their “not so attractive” photo. At the end of the day, looks may be on someone’s list, but it shouldn't be at the top. You want someone to gel with on an intellectual level, someone to make you laugh and treat you with respect. Sure you may want to find someone good looking and it’s possible, but their personality might not match.

They say opposites attract and I do agree. I believe one mistake people make, is wanting someone who is the same and that can be boring. With the help of, wouldn't it be nice to learn something new. You can introduce one another to new adventures, whether it be a sport or a salsa class. Both of you could broaden your knowledge and each of you could bring something different to the relationship.

More importantly Honesty is important, am I right? Sometimes you will find someone who says anything, just to seem appealing. You do not want to mislead anyone and I take this seriously. Being in charge of the online dating service I would make sure everyone provides a screen test, including a background check. This is just a precaution to make sure all members are safe and in the best care. So if you didn’t pass the test, you will not be able to move forward. I would want my clients to feel comfortable and trust in my ability to connect them with their mate! Finding your match should be simple and safe, but also fun. 

*This is a sponsored post, but all opinions are my own.

Important Things To Remember In Life

Thursday, February 28, 2019

It is very important for people to have positivity in their life. I know I talk about topics like this a lot, but it is only because I like encouraging others. You never know what someone is going through in everyday life. Sometimes we all need a little boost of support. 

Helping Someone Shine Will Not Dim Your Light
It’s good to support each other, that does not mean you will have a bad reputation for doing so. It doesn’t mean that you will not succeed in in everything you want to accomplish. 

You are good enough 
Do not let anyone tell you that you are not enough. If someone tries to belittle you and lower your self esteem, that means that they are going through something. Do not entertain their negativity energy, they feed of that. 

You matter 
You matter and you are loved! Don’t ever think that someone does not care about you because they do care. If you are around a great support system keep them close. You are important! 

Life doesn’t always go as planned and that’s ok
The thing about life is that sometimes you have to wing it and go with the flow. Some of the best things in life, come unexpectedly.

You are not a failure
If you did not accomplish a goal or you didn’t complete a marathon, does not mean you failed. The most important thing can do is try your best. That fact that you are taking risks and putting yourself out there means you have already won!

Do not give up
You can do it! Success does not happen over night, you might fall down and scrap yourself. Just know that it doesn’t matter how many times you fall, as long as you get back up and finish your goal!

I hope you remember these things and write them down if you have to! 

Doing Things Differently In 2019!

Tuesday, February 26, 2019

A new year equals a fresh start, to do things the right way. So you have learned from your mistakes and life lessons taught you what to do differently this time around. I’m not an expert on life and I’m still figuring out my own. This isn’t me giving you advice, it’s just us group of friends talking. What this means is that I am going to be completely honest with you. You have the opportunity to change your story if you didn’t like the previous chapter. With that being said you should let go of any negative energy that followed you into this year.

If you’re around toxic energy, that can have a major impact on your life. Sometimes we’re afraid of change and because of this we stay in our comfort zone. This is very understandable trust me, I’m talking to myself in this post too. When you are comfortable in a situation you think that, this is all you need. In any relationship you have, whether it’s with your significant others or friends you need to pay attention to who is in your corner rooting for you. Ask yourself if the people in your circle ones that always support you, are always there for you and love you the way you love them? 

If a situation is no longer good for you, then it will not benefit you. For example, if someone is always negative to you leave that negative vibes. Find people who are positive and always trying to lift you up and make you smile. If a friendship is one sided and you are the one going out of your way, maybe it’s not really a friendship anymore. Was it even a friendship to begin with. Most importantly, don’t be the one that is giving off negativity. Everyone is going through a battle or an obstacle in life and that doesn’t give anyone the right to beat them down further. If you are the one going through a battle you will get through it. If someone wants to be there for you, I know life may seem hard right now but don’t push them away. Those are the people you want in your life. You never know, but you might all of these things for a person. If you know someone is struggling be there for them, if you feel like you can’t then help them find someone to talk too. Kindness goes along way and it doesn’t cost to show someone you care.

So much is going on in the world today and we need to bring positive vibes more than ever. It seems like something terrible is happening either everyday or every other day. Be the light in your life, be that strength for yourself, be the friend you have always wanted. If you can find someone to be all of those things for you, that’s a bonus and the  person who can do that for you is a keeper. 

I hope you enjoyed reading this. Most importantly, I hope it helped you. Remember you are enough and you are worth it!