Finding Love In All The Right Places!

Friday, May 24, 2019

Dating is a risky chance to take, but finding someone you connect with on another level is worth it. Online dating has become the new normal, it’s not so taboo anymore. It seems like everyone is joining a dating site these days. It’s fun, different, but unique and you have the opportunity to meet the right guy or girl even if they are miles away. Looking for the right person should be fun. 

You’re probably thinking why is she saying fun, but seriously it should be. Sure you’re taking a chance on finding the right person, but if this is something new, you should let you’re guard a little. When you take that step to meeting someone online, it’s about giving someone a chance. I mean if you know the type of person you want and you should settle, but having a long list of the perfect guy or girl doesn’t really exist. But that doesn’t mean that your soulmate doesn’t. You never know you could be scrolling right past them.

I’ve always wondered what it would be like to help someone find: the yin to their yang, the peanut butter to their jelly! So why not share what I would do as a matchmaker. When looking for someone, I feel like people look at appearances. It would be interesting to create a site where people couldn’t see what their potential mate looked like or having everyone post their “not so attractive” photo. At the end of the day, looks may be on someone’s list, but it shouldn't be at the top. You want someone to gel with on an intellectual level, someone to make you laugh and treat you with respect. Sure you may want to find someone good looking and it’s possible, but their personality might not match.

They say opposites attract and I do agree. I believe one mistake people make, is wanting someone who is the same and that can be boring. With the help of, wouldn't it be nice to learn something new. You can introduce one another to new adventures, whether it be a sport or a salsa class. Both of you could broaden your knowledge and each of you could bring something different to the relationship.

More importantly Honesty is important, am I right? Sometimes you will find someone who says anything, just to seem appealing. You do not want to mislead anyone and I take this seriously. Being in charge of the online dating service I would make sure everyone provides a screen test, including a background check. This is just a precaution to make sure all members are safe and in the best care. So if you didn’t pass the test, you will not be able to move forward. I would want my clients to feel comfortable and trust in my ability to connect them with their mate! Finding your match should be simple and safe, but also fun. 

*This is a sponsored post, but all opinions are my own.